1. Are the 'New Atheists' avoiding the 'real arguments'?
Comment #177480 by jac12358 on May 9, 2008 at 6:53 am
I have to say I'm impressed that this thread has remained #2 on the top 20 threads on this site, DESPITE a month having elapsed between this and the last post. Oh, it was mine! And so was the one before that, making it more like a month and a week.
2. Losing Our Spines to Save Our Necks
Comment #176907 by jac12358 on May 8, 2008 at 10:26 am
Quite a heated little debate there. Interesting, if not all what I agree is true, or prudent.
I felt compelled to caution that in my previous post I was not condoning a so-called "ultimate solution" which would have been ironic (and perhaps it is because I'm saying it now!) - but I meant that selective force and strict measures, in response and preemptive, are likely to be effective responses over idealistic sit-down chats.
The trouble with clearmind's response is that it perpetuates a neverending cycle of "bad behavior justifies bad behavior," moral equivalency and endless tit-for-tat "it's MINE!" "I was here first!" mentality and behavior. And with GOD on your side, each faction can feel righteous (hence the danger). (I'm waiting for the branch of Islam to break away claiming God has said the Islam are the chosen people and America is their prize.) The atheist, I hope and I imagine, simply wants all the squabbling and killing to STOP. But sometimes to make it stop for real unfortunate methods should be used. Otherwise we simply tolerate it or contain it. No era of peace and prosperity has ever NOT been preceeded by great war. We are animals and this is our "sophisticated" method of doing our territorial pissings for our land and natural resources, with the added feature of religion giving us justification as well as painting us with our tribal colors. It is a real shame, and I am very sad at this reality. I had hoped we were better than this, but just like the hope of god and life everlasting, just wishing it does not make it so.
Just be glad that we are in a position of power and CAN do something about it, if we can have the will. Otherwise, if clearthinker is right, then we (in America) should, amid our current economic troubles, roll over and fork over half of our land and/or money in reparations for all the EVIL that some of our ancestors did in the grand tradition of the human race since recorded history. And it still won't be enough, for we'd have to endure a fair deal of persecution, forced conversion or death, to make the enemy TRULY satisfied. Give 'em an inch...
On the issue of religious criticism and racism: this is a tough one. Some religions are quite mixed ethnically, but some, especially Islam, is concentrated in certain parts of the world and practiced by certain ethnicities to a degree of at least 90%. I don't know any black Mormons or Menanites or Amish, and I don't know any Mexican Hindus, Eskimo Buddhists, White Kwanzza-ists, or Aborigina Zeus-worshippers. Of course there are exceptions, like Christianity, which is probably the most racially balanced religion, but most of this "mixing" is due to relatively recent colonialism and missionary work, which explains all the Catholic Filipinos. Jews are unique because their association, to me, seems to cross not the religion-race boundary, but rather a religion-nation boundary, since "Jew" as far as I know is the only answer that would fit equally in "nationality" and "religion" check box.
So I think to stir things up by saying a critic of religion is being RACIST is to play the race card oneself. True, there is a lot of generalisation and racial profiling, but doing this is merely a convenience which matches most of the time with statistics that have high correlation rates. And as an infidel, a target for death, I reserve the right both to criticize, defend myself, and not worry about walkign on eggshells so as not to "offend" the silent minority of the religion, who do nothing to change things and so in a way condone or enable it to continue.
And "offending" cartoon is just too nice for them.
Sorry.
3. Losing Our Spines to Save Our Necks
Comment #176867 by jac12358 on May 8, 2008 at 7:55 am
Wonderful article. I could not agree more.
(Now see how boring total agreement and praise are?)
So of course I have a couple things to add.
First is my embarrassed mistake of thinking Hitchens wrote this article! As I read I "heard" it with his voice - I think it is because I recall Hitchens being particularly pro-aggression when it comes to dealing with terrorists, compared to Dawkins at least, and so I assumed incorrectly. Plus, you know, both start with "H" - I know, duh...
Well, as someone already voiced: "what should we foot soldiers do?" Now, I don't like to think of myself as a foot soldier or doing anyone's bidding, but the tone and conclusions of the article suggest and point to an even grander conclusion which is never spoken. Sure, he says "we should criticize even more" so we overwhelm muslims and they can no longer single out individuals who "offended" them and need to die, but this all sounds a bit like Rimmer in that Red Dwarf episode where he gets his hostility sucked out of him, dons a goatee and "Give Quiche a Chance" T-Shirt and suggests battling the enemy by hitting it "really hard" with a "leaflet campaign."
It has been established - when we switch off our slippery-slope detection gear - that being religious leads to insane activity such as suicide bombings. But I don't think anyone would argue that a sweet old church lady would do such a thing. True, she might grimace at gays kissing, violence and cursing on TV, wear a cross, and know nothing of Einstein's theories of relativity and even less on Darwin's, but if you ever crossed paths with her or tried to argue against her beliefs the most she will do is say she will "pray for you," wag her finger, give you the maloik (sp?) or evil eye...
If we - and especially Dawkins with the momentum of a best-seller - can admittedly do no better that convince only current "fence sitting" nice friendly next-door or mother-in-law religious folk, then WHAT can we do with a suicide bomber intent on killing us (who, by the way, makes no distincting whether we are Christian, Jew OR atheist)? How do you reason with them? What can you negotiate in lieu of your own prompt evaporation from the earth, that would please them? Should we appease them with rewards for NOT killing us today, like we do with North Koreans every time they need some cash and they fly a missile into the ocean, which they'll stop doing if we "help them"?
If, as so many say in here, that it is nearly impossible to, on average, convince but a single mild-mannered (but non-fence-sitting) religious Westerner of their delusion, then what chance do we stand against a congregation of thousands of the same, unitied in solidarity and herd-mentality? One notch above that is to argue with them when "they" are armed (physically and ideologically) Muslims and you have a big red "infidel" target painted on you?
It is interesting how the article endeavors to eliminate political correctness from the debate, but itself fails to offer what would seem to amount to the only realistic solution (in effectiveness and which would inspire fear and real respect instead of perceived cowardice) because of a higher pervasive political correctness?
4. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #175973 by jac12358 on May 6, 2008 at 9:58 am
As Bertrand Russell pointed out, it is precisely for this reason that they are so touchy about the subject of religion. If they were more sure of their beliefs, they wouldn't care what others said about them.
5. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #175965 by jac12358 on May 6, 2008 at 9:42 am
Well, yes and no. According to Dawkins, Stalin was an atheist who did evil things, but there is no direct "logical pathway" from atheism to bad deeds, as there is with religious faith. I have to say I don't entirely understand Dawkins's thinking here -- how, after all, could the executions of religious figures not follow logically from the promotion of atheism?
6. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #171502 by jac12358 on April 28, 2008 at 2:24 pm
Evolution isn't chance, it's incremental selection of chance mutations and if IDers believe in only 2 options, that is a fault in their thinking, not in evolution.
7. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #168907 by jac12358 on April 25, 2008 at 12:49 pm
"seeker_of_truth: The best analogy I have heard is language. "
Interesting. Languages have evolved into separate species over time.
8. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #168694 by jac12358 on April 25, 2008 at 9:45 am
And for the record, gravity is one of the least understood things going. No one knows what it is. The two major theories of the physical world (being quantum theory and relativity) are mutually exclusive. They can't both be right. Yet, when each one deals with its own particular specialism (the very small for quantum theory and the not very small for relativity) both come up with predictions that are mind-bogglingly accurate. One analogy I heard for QM is that its accuracy is like predicting the distance from LA to New York to within the width of a human hair.
9. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #165804 by jac12358 on April 22, 2008 at 11:32 am
Extremely frustrating doesn't even begin to describe it. We have in our history some of the greatest composers, scientists, inventors, philosophers, novelists(and writers in general), poets etc...
Over a thousand years of culture, and for most people, Germany is not linked in their minds with Beethoven, Bach, Schubert, Schumann, Goethe, Schiller, Heine, Kafka, Leibniz, Kant, Hegel, Nietzsche, Einstein, Plank, Heisenberg - but with Hitler and those 12 years from 1933 to 1945.
It's very sad.
For a recent study, schoolchildren in Britain were asked to name "evil states"... guess what the top answers were? Iraq and Germany.
Among the less educated (and the averagely educated) in english-speaking countries, if you tell anyone you're from Germany, they lift their right arm to the "Hitler-Gruß" and shout "Sieg Heil".
But there are also extremely many people who know better :)
Nevertheless - something has to be done about it... and I would say it mostly has to do with the history education in schools.
10. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #165776 by jac12358 on April 22, 2008 at 9:51 am
Richard, Great letter. It must get so tiring responding to this mindless 'Hitler was an atheist' nonsense over and over again. Good on you for answering this issue yet again.
11. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #165601 by jac12358 on April 21, 2008 at 7:25 pm
238. Comment #165371 by MaxD on April 21, 2008 at 12:00 pm
Jac12358,
If David decides to respond he will not address a single substative point. He will make heavy weather of the any vitriol and play the victim. This is his method.
It is disengeious, as his blanket attacks in his own letter to the hurt jewish guy amply demonstrate. In fact he didn't really wish to make his case for theology but rather just imply that it was again atheist who is the problem and imply the only option is his religion. This is strangely the same tactic of the ID/creationsist studies folk. DR only offers the false dichotomy and not much of substance.
It is for this reason people tire of him, and get uh..."short" with him.
12. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #165360 by jac12358 on April 21, 2008 at 11:47 am
"Of course "moderate" religion paves the way to extremism! What rock have you been living under?"
Is this not a classic example of slipper slope? Of course moderism MAY lead to extremism for SOME people, you cannot say that it MUST.
And I forgot to include in my last post that I was not agreeing with Robertson (whose post I did not read as religiously-steeped as interpreted by others, who I sense were familiar with his other likely more-obviously religious posts) - I merely was asking people to respond to the criticisms at face value which, if weak, should be easy, and more honorable than just attacking him based on his previous posts.
13. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #165293 by jac12358 on April 21, 2008 at 9:58 am
Although I not nothing about this Donald fellow, there was a lot of his post which did seem to make a valid argument, and I would suggest instead of simply condemning him altogether (especially when the post in question was practically bereft of discernable hate) that you might address his comments and demonstrate them to be the falsehoods you know they are.
14. Open Letter to a victim of Ben Stein's lying propaganda
Comment #165281 by jac12358 on April 21, 2008 at 9:41 am
Great response from Dawkins.
It is always difficult jumping in to a thread this long, and one's comment does not always answer the preceding post, but here is what I (as did a few other people) found worthy of comment:
Diacanu on April 20, 2008 at 5:51 pm
BillG-
Have you ever used birth control?
Then, you're weren't using sex for its designed purpose.
Have you ever been on a plane?
Then, you've defied gravity.
Have you, or a parent, or a grandparent been saved by modern medicine?
Then, you owe your existance to someone defying the will of nature.
So,how did you "pick and choose", how to "delineate between the proper and improper applications of Darwin's theory".
15. Russell T Davies: Return of the (tea) Time Lord
Comment #163651 by jac12358 on April 18, 2008 at 5:51 pm
I think you may be mistaken if you think I am "on your side". I am gay, I just don't think Steve's speculation is on solid scientific ground.
We shouldn't have to justify ourselves with "we were born that way". No one asks or cares whether your preference of hot food is the result of nature or nurture.
The way I see it, if homosexuals are born, those who hate us would still say it is a genetic disease, so "blaming the genes" doesn't really get us very far as long as we still see the need to "blame" something for who we are,--for whatever reason. I shouldn't have to be apologetic of the fact that I am attracted to man and I won't.
We are here and we are here to stay. I don't need to justify my sexual preference any more than you have to justify yours. In a rational society no one should even care about anyone's sexuality, whether in real life or on TV.
16. Russell T Davies: Return of the (tea) Time Lord
Comment #163625 by jac12358 on April 18, 2008 at 4:27 pm
You have made the common mistake of assuming that only traits that are expressed in reproductive individuals can assist with the propogation of genes. This is not the case at all. Just to give one example, there are many cases in nature where non-reproducing inviduals assist their siblings and/or parents with the raising of offspring. This is genetic - there is an inherited tenency for there to be individuals who don't have offspring. This actually increases reproductive fitness.
Homosexuality is very widespread in nature, and as far as I know there is no great ape species in which there aren't gay individuals. The functionality of same-sex activity can be different in different species, but in general it seems to have a role in maintaining the coherence of society.
It may also more directly increase reproductive fitness because of the "uncle/aunt" role that gay and lesbian individuals can perform. There is good reason to believe this may be important in humans as our children require a lot of care. Indeed, we have other non-reproductive individuals whose presence is beneficial - grandparents! It is true that average lifespans in the past were much shorter, but many adults would probably still have survived into their 40s, 50s and even 60s.
And regarding the rest of your post, Cartomancer deals with it eloquently. I do have to say though that you are talking a lot of twaddle.
Who cares about reality in a programmes like Doctor Who or Torchwood? If you are that concerned about sampling populations correctly, better get rid of the Gallifreyan.
If you are really concerned about representation, then there are more important things to worry about - where are the over 50's in such programmes? Where are the black people? Where are the obsese people? Heck, where are the ugly people? Funny how people get so worked up because of homosexuality....
17. Russell T Davies: Return of the (tea) Time Lord
Comment #163609 by jac12358 on April 18, 2008 at 3:52 pm
Translation - "I don't want to argue any more, I just want you to accept that my arguments are valid even though you don't think they are".
If anyone is playing the victim here it is you. It is very telling that you start your rant with a, frankly irrelevant, diatribe about how you feel your views are not given fair airing - and then once you've stated them tell us you're not interested in hearing anyone else's rebuttals. If you genuinely were ostracised and censored then we wouldn't bother arguing against you - we'd just tag you as offensive and report you to the authorities, trying to get you removed. Criticism of your views is not tantamount to stifling debate on them - precisely the opposite in fact. Get over your wounded pride and try seeing things from a perspective other than your own for a change eh?
But that's the problem isn't it? You see the world as simply one big capitalistic nightmare, where money is the only thing that talks and human solidarity can be chalked up as numbers on a balance sheet. It's all the red-in-tooth-and-claw competition between interest groups isn't it, with the strong inevitably triumphing over the weak? Well I have news for you - society does not have to work that way.
It's not a question of a clique of self-interested gay people working hard towards a "revolution" where we somehow fleece the majority of society into doing what is best for us and worst for them. It's a question of the entirety of society re-evaluating their views and doing what is best for everyone, each according to their own needs.
Straight and gay people should and do work together to end discrimination - just as black and white, disabled and able-bodied, male and female have done. If you try to run society simply by the unexamined will of the unthinking majority you don't get democracy, you get ochlocracy - mob rule.
And yes, we have only picked up on some of your points rather than others. That's because we disagree with those points most strongly. That's how debate works. Should we criticise everything about China simply because we disagree with their human rights record? What kind of a stupid argument is that?
I should reiterate that it is YOU who consistently confuses the issues of gay/straight representation on TV and the prominence of sexually explicit imagery - and you've made it pretty clear that you do this because you find it difficult to think of gay people in any other way but a sexual one. They're two separate issues - get over it.
And you still cannot get over the fact that you're just as biased in this debate as either of us. It doesn't matter that yours is the majority position - a pro-majority bias is still a bias.
You have completely failed to realise that simply presenting gay people only 5% of the time is, de facto, discriminatory in today's climate.
18. Russell T Davies: Return of the (tea) Time Lord
Comment #163567 by jac12358 on April 18, 2008 at 2:23 pm
Bonzai, where have you been?!? I've had to fend for myself for so long... You know, they are right about not wanting those closeted gays to feel so cut off as they do, since I myself admit wanting the solidarity of a few others who feel or think as I do, or at least parallel to my thinking and not challenge everything I suggest and portray it as a weak or irrelevant argument aimed as a personal attack.
In other words, nice, thoughtful and concise post. It will be nice to observe how others digest the words of another and respond to them...
19. Russell T Davies: Return of the (tea) Time Lord
Comment #162136 by jac12358 on April 16, 2008 at 8:11 am
Hmm - I am unable to access page two of this thread on account no doubt of the flagged content there which is deemed inappropriate on this system (at work during my break), so I'll try to respond to what Cartomancer said yestderday based on my memory of it.
I feel history repeating itself again in a new thread. I find a post which contains valid points of view not originating with me. I comment on them and add my thoughts, which are usually many. Then a few people pick out one or two of my NUMEROUS points, take them personally, and then the conversation spirals down from that point. Why must this be? How can it be that we live in an "I'm so offended" entitlement age simultaneously while being subjected to some very offensive things in what is supposed to be a free society? If we disagree, why can it not end there, but continue with insults and usually false assumptions about the other and their intentions or meanings? It is like we cannot even TALK about certain things because they are taboo (like criticising religion) - a sort of reverse-discrimination for gays as there was/is with racial minorities. Backlash. But it gets worse: now people are offended WHEN someone else takes offense, or sees things any differently from them, which is why many things, especially politics, have become SO polarized and partisan.
I cannot even DISCUSS any gay issue in here unless 1) I am gay, or 2) I agree with what someone who is says about it. Period. End of discussion. Otherwise, I'm "offensive" and "have issues." Is that REALLY the best a counterargument has to offer? I had hoped not but it is what I have come to expect. It reminds me very much of the race card - one cannot even DISCUSS race if it suggests a shift in who is responsible or accountable, or even cites statistics which are true and thus troubling to the "offended," who's last resort is always to make a public display of his or her "offense" and brand the other as a "racist." I'm thinking of Obama's camp criticising the fellow who complimented him for being "well spoken" causing an uproar, whereas Obama's comment "typical white person" should pass - but it is all silly because there, LIKE HERE, the focus of the REAL debate, the topics and their solutions is eclipsed by the mudlinging and the subjective misinterpretations, offenses and agendas.
People regularly impugn the academic or intellectual or logical merit and thoughtfulness of my words as if they had somehow self-elected themselves on-par or above any master's or doctoral thesis committee I have had to previously face, or thousands of students I've had and observations and guidelines I've had to meet.
I've stated - as often I do - my point many times that I DO NOT disaprove of gays or their lifestyle, but question the appropriateness of depicting that or any other sexually explicit or implied material to CHILDREN, since the topic of this thread is about Doctor Who, which since 1963 has been a children/family-friendly show. Prior to 1989's final "classic" series, there was barely ANY romantic or sexual innuendo at all. Now we can't have a companion who 1) hasn't kissed the doctor (male or female), 2) hasn't WANTED to, or 3) had to explicitly state that they DON'T want to "mate" (though it remains to be seen how well the writers can resist exploiting tensions to the contrary).
To be fair, so far this season I haven't seen anything like that, so perhaps it is all done with and most of the depictions are concentrated into Torchwood. I don't know. It is more appropriate there since it is an adult show, but there my complaint is often in how pertinent some of the material is and the percentages of it (and I'M the one willing to grant a doubling from 5% to 10%!) - yes they are fictional characters, ONE of whom the regulars is from "the future," but they are supposed to be a sampling from our planet and times. Or maybe something is in the air in Wales... Even regardless of their orientation, the show has been criticized by their depiction as a bunch of non-professional misfits. But let's stay away from that show. I still like it for other reasons anyway.
I'm sure some of you would simply LOVE if the Doctor "came out" - which would be essentially the ultimate 900-year revisionist history "shock" to everyone. But why would that be necessary EXCEPT to to make you "feel good about yourselves" and RTD to spread that agenda? Make a brand new kid's show with a hero and make HIM gay from the start instead. Otherwise we'd immediately have to reimagine William Hartnell fancying Ian, and Pat Troughton hoping for a stiff breeze to blow Jamie's kilt up. Perhaps it would explain all the platonic female companions, so he "avoids temptation." But why even go there in a kid/family show?
Tell you what, my fears are unfounded because I doubt RTD has the guts to do it because either all or part of what I am saying is true, or he fears retribution from the fans - i.e. his source of revenue (via proxy advertisers I imagine). So in the end, money DOES talk and so you'd better aim your criticism at RTD for not making the show gay enough soon enough. I havew NOTHING to do with it, as has been implied with telling me "what I am trying to do."
Similarly I saw this last year with stores across America trying to "please everyone" by saying "happy holiday" instead of "Merry Christmas." A silly debate and topic to be sure, but when that backfired and they annoyed more people than they originally tried to "not offend" they went right back to "Merry Christmas - BUY OUR STUFF!" Seems money talks. Capitalism and the majority do have influence. So aim your vitriol at gays ensconced in positions of power who can't bring on the revolution soon enough, so hampered they are by "the bottom line" - they are YOUR true hypocrites. I'm merely on the sideline, without influence, observing, and suggesting maybe amid all the idealism and self-righteous flustering that perhaps someone ought to look out for the children. Or, does it all remain to be seen if a child seeing some explicit romance of any kind (or violence) is as "abused" as seeing a crucifix, as Dawkins argues? If his opinion is valid, then surely mine merits more than passing scorn.
On the subject of my alleged bias because I am straight. If I grant you this then some of Steve's arguments in other threads crumble. Were I to suggest depicting LESS than 5 or 10% gays in the media, or abolish all references to them not just in children's shows, but also in adult program's, then you'd have a point and call me a homophobe. But this is not what I am suggesting. Simply because my point of view meshes with the majority does not make it ipso facto a bias (correlation does not imply causation). Otherwise I invite onlookers to note that my current 2 critics are both gay and both focusing ONLY on that aspect of a myriad of points I first made in this thread, which by ignoring I assume they agree with, don't care about, or cannot refute. I am alive, so I guess I am biased compared to those dead or things non-living. As a human we are all anthro-centric (?) which is depicted in how central we've viewed the earth as the center of the universe, to how we are the ultimate end-product of evolution, the superior species, the one capable of free-will, and the one capable of cataclysmic word destruction. All share the root cause of over-inflated self-importance, power and abilities. Lose the illusion.
On ther gay gene: You might not have said "gene" but you did say "evolved." Unless you are talking about the evolution of a meme or somethign non-corporeal and non-genetic, then you are talking about some genetic information that can only be passed down via a most-certainly non-gay procreative activity. If you can show me the non-biological-but-not-genetic source of this "proclivity" and how it sustains in our species, then please do. Otherwise it is - if it exists - a mutation which, at best: 1) does not harm us in any way so long as someone else does the procreating, 2) is a form of population control, ensuring adequate resources for species (tenuous at best), or 3) is a form of societal bonding on the intimate level which has expanded beyond the opposite sex.
I think it is more of a capacity for something, and what we actually do is a matter of choice (if you have any, and I guess some of you think you don't so there's one more strike against free will) combined with the environment and our experiences within it that shape who we are. For instance, humans have the capacity to do things like write novels or plant tulips, but people who do do not have specific "novel-writing" or "bulb-planting" genes. The "unwritten novel" and the "unplanted bulbs" do not exist in our genes. Though we may have the capacity do direct our erotic affections on anybody and anything, that does not mean the object of those affections are pre-written into our genetic make-up. I imagine there are other factors biological which, in collaboration with the environment, help shape these things.
Anyway, that is all for now. Let's get back to the original topics, please. I am out of my league to say anything more in this area, I think you will agree (probably barring me from saying anything, I imagine), but am entitled to what I've said, and certainly reflects more than my own views. I've heard yours. Let others decide or chime in, and let there be a variety of respondents.
20. Russell T Davies: Return of the (tea) Time Lord
Comment #161929 by jac12358 on April 15, 2008 at 8:46 pm
I am sorry to come late to this, but I was pretty shocked to read your posts.
I will respond in more detail later, once I have seen what Cartomancer has written.
The dealing with gay issues on Doctor Who has been very positive in British society.
And it sounds like you have some serious issues to deal with, and your knowledge of biology and the evolution of sexual preference is as poor as your recently demonstrated knowledge of philosophy.
Oh, and I am a far better person to talk about gay icons with than Carto, if he will forgive me. I have followed everyone from Streisand to Mika.
22. Russell T Davies: Return of the (tea) Time Lord
Comment #161594 by jac12358 on April 15, 2008 at 12:39 pm
I get the feeling that you're trying your hardest to balance your personal feelings with the need for tolerance, respect and understanding. As such I will try to be as civil as I can about what you say. Nevertheless, I do find the tone of your post redolent with a barely concealed distaste verging on the homophobic.
Why is it that positive images of gay people are considered some kind of propaganda while positive images of straight people merely normal?
Do you hear me complaining about the "straight agenda"?
Atheism and Liberalism are not comparable phenomena to homosexuality. Nobody is born atheist or liberal - these are, on the one hand, a conclusion about the nature of reality and on the other an opinion on the best way to organise a society. Sexuality is innate, and has a biological basis. It is not negotiable - you can no more indoctrinate a child to be gay than you can indoctrinate her to be six feet tall. Besides, if homosexual is a perfectly natural, normal and acceptable thing to be then what does it matter if children do turn out that way? Even if it were a matter of choice (which it isn't), where would the harm be if massive numbers of children decided they wanted to be gay?
Actually it's closer to 5% according to the studies I have seen, but that's immaterial.
Television, especially science fantasy television, is not about trying to represent society exactly as it is on a demographic level - it has a duty to reach every member of society and provide something they can relate to.
Try to understand this from the perspective of a gay person. When I watch TV or see a film which has some kind of sexual relationship in it (anything from a mild crush to kissing to full-blown over-the-top sex), then 95% of the time that relationship will be a heterosexual one. Now, this is perfectly in line population statistics, but it most certainly does not represent my life experience very well. In my life, 100% of my relationship experiences (if I ever end up having any at all!) will be homosexual ones. When I see heterosexual relationships on TV I can relate to them to some extent, but the closest I can generally get is "that's the sort of thing my friends do", never "that's the sort of thing I might do". In order to adapt the dramatic situations I see to be relevant to my life I always have to re-imagine them to some degree, which is never as emotionally powerful as seeing them up there in a form I can directly relate to.
According to your population statistics model, this means that I will be at a loss to relate directly to 95% of the relationship stories I see on TV.
You, as a heterosexual, on the other hand, will be unable to relate to the other 5%. Does that seem fair? Should TV be a heterosexual medium?
Isn't that discrimination? Doesn't it effectively exclude people like me?
Given your other statements I take this to mean that you find it somewhat off-putting to have to watch people like me getting intimate with one another, not that you object to us doing it altogether.
First of all I should point out that showing gay people on TV does not always mean showing us having sex.
Secondly, how do you think we feel about all the heterosexuals we see on TV day in day out? Do we find it offensive to have that "agenda" thrust in our faces all the time?
I appreciate your attempts to show that you are not bigoted or homophobic, and I believe that you are neither of these things deep down, however the language you use here is both flawed and actually pretty offensive.
Just because something is not in the majority does not make it "abnormal". Does that mean red haired people are "abnormal" too? What about left-handed people? what about black people? In fact what about everyone who isn't Chinese? Does that make atheists abnormal because the majority of the world is religious in some sense?
Also, my anatomy did evolve to do this thank you very much. My brain evolved to find other men attractive, as did the brains of all other gay men.
If that were not the case and my sexuality made me less differentially survivable then homosexuality would have disappeared from the gene pool long ago.
The prostate gland is so conveniently located for stimulation in this manner after all...
It is narrowly reductionistic to assume that the biology of human sexual behaviour is only about reproduction. If that were the case it would be a damn sight less complicated and more effective for reproducing.
There are plenty of good reasons why natural homosexual behaviour might have developed.
Well thanks for that! I think you'll find that the vast majority of gay people don't cross-dress.
As for "gay icons" I'm not the most knowledgeable person on the phenomenon.
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Comment #161593 by jac12358 on April 15, 2008 at 12:38 pm
I get the feeling that you're trying your hardest to balance your personal feelings with the need for tolerance, respect and understanding. As such I will try to be as civil as I can about what you say. Nevertheless, I do find the tone of your post redolent with a barely concealed distaste verging on the homophobic.
Why is it that positive images of gay people are considered some kind of propaganda while positive images of straight people merely normal?
Do you hear me complaining about the "straight agenda"?
Atheism and Liberalism are not comparable phenomena to homosexuality. Nobody is born atheist or liberal - these are, on the one hand, a conclusion about the nature of reality and on the other an opinion on the best way to organise a society. Sexuality is innate, and has a biological basis. It is not negotiable - you can no more indoctrinate a child to be gay than you can indoctrinate her to be six feet tall. Besides, if homosexual is a perfectly natural, normal and acceptable thing to be then what does it matter if children do turn out that way? Even if it were a matter of choice (which it isn't), where would the harm be if massive numbers of children decided they wanted to be gay?
Actually it's closer to 5% according to the studies I have seen, but that's immaterial.
Television, especially science fantasy television, is not about trying to represent society exactly as it is on a demographic level - it has a duty to reach every member of society and provide something they can relate to.
Try to understand this from the perspective of a gay person. When I watch TV or see a film which has some kind of sexual relationship in it (anything from a mild crush to kissing to full-blown over-the-top sex), then 95% of the time that relationship will be a heterosexual one. Now, this is perfectly in line population statistics, but it most certainly does not represent my life experience very well. In my life, 100% of my relationship experiences (if I ever end up having any at all!) will be homosexual ones. When I see heterosexual relationships on TV I can relate to them to some extent, but the closest I can generally get is "that's the sort of thing my friends do", never "that's the sort of thing I might do". In order to adapt the dramatic situations I see to be relevant to my life I always have to re-imagine them to some degree, which is never as emotionally powerful as seeing them up there in a form I can directly relate to.
According to your population statistics model, this means that I will be at a loss to relate directly to 95% of the relationship stories I see on TV.
You, as a heterosexual, on the other hand, will be unable to relate to the other 5%. Does that seem fair? Should TV be a heterosexual medium?
Isn't that discrimination? Doesn't it effectively exclude people like me?
Given your other statements I take this to mean that you find it somewhat off-putting to have to watch people like me getting intimate with one another, not that you object to us doing it altogether.
First of all I should point out that showing gay people on TV does not always mean showing us having sex.
Secondly, how do you think we feel about all the heterosexuals we see on TV day in day out? Do we find it offensive to have that "agenda" thrust in our faces all the time?
I appreciate your attempts to show tha